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The Whole Picture

A blog where understanding a child means looking at the whole picture — not just one piece.

When the Latch Looks Good but Milk Transfer Isn’t

When the Latch Looks Good but Milk Transfer Isn’t

Many parents are told that if breastfeeding doesn’t hurt and the latch looks good, everything must be going well. But sometimes breastfeeding can appear normal while a baby is still struggling to remove milk efficiently. In this article, we explore the difference between latch and milk transfer and the subtle signs that a baby may be working harder than expected during feeds.

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Breastfeeding Is a Two-Person System

Breastfeeding Is a Two-Person System

Breastfeeding is often framed as a milk supply issue, but supply is directly influenced by how effectively milk is removed from the breast. When babies struggle with latch, suction, or feeding coordination, milk transfer may be inefficient, which can gradually reduce supply. Understanding the baby’s role in breastfeeding allows families and professionals to support both sides of the feeding relationship.

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I Thought My Milk Supply Was Failing… But It Wasn’t Me

I Thought My Milk Supply Was Failing… But It Wasn’t Me

Sometimes a latch can look perfect, but a baby may still struggle to remove milk efficiently. In our new series, The Other Side of Milk Supply, we explore how feeding mechanics and oral function can affect milk production—and what parents can do to support both sides of the system.

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How Mouth Breathing Can Influence Your Child’s Growth, Facial Development, and Posture: Part 2
Alyssa Lundquist Alyssa Lundquist

How Mouth Breathing Can Influence Your Child’s Growth, Facial Development, and Posture: Part 2

Ever notice your child’s lips resting open, chewing slowly, or holding their head forward? Chronic mouth breathing doesn’t just affect sleep — it can subtly influence jaw growth, facial development, and posture over time. In this guide, we’ll explore how breathing patterns shape your child’s body and what gentle, supportive steps you can take early.

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Is Mouth Breathing in Kids a Big Deal? Signs, Sleep Risks, and What Parents Should Know: Part 1
Alyssa Lundquist Alyssa Lundquist

Is Mouth Breathing in Kids a Big Deal? Signs, Sleep Risks, and What Parents Should Know: Part 1

Ever notice your child’s mouth resting open, snoring, or seeming tired even after a full night’s sleep? Chronic mouth breathing in children isn’t just a habit — it can affect sleep, growth, posture, and oral function. In this guide, we’ll explore what mouth breathing looks like, why it matters, and when it’s worth seeking support — all in a parent-friendly, practical way.

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Tongue Ties 101: Separating Facts From Myths 
Alyssa Lundquist Alyssa Lundquist

Tongue Ties 101: Separating Facts From Myths 

Tongue ties can affect more than feeding — they influence speech, breathing, and even nervous system regulation. This guide separates common myths from facts, helping parents understand what a tongue tie really is and how to support healthy tongue function.

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Breastfeeding Challenges We Don’t Talk About
Alyssa Lundquist Alyssa Lundquist

Breastfeeding Challenges We Don’t Talk About

Breastfeeding isn’t always smooth—many parents face hidden challenges like oversupply, slow milk transfer, jaw fatigue, or subtle latch issues. Learn what signs to watch for and how expert support can make feeding easier and more comfortable for both you and your baby.

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The Connection Between the Tongue and the Vagus Nerve
Alyssa Lundquist Alyssa Lundquist

The Connection Between the Tongue and the Vagus Nerve

Tongue position is often discussed in relation to feeding and speech — but it also plays a powerful role in how the nervous system functions. The tongue’s connection to the vagus nerve helps explain why challenges with tongue posture can impact regulation, digestion, breathing, and even a child’s ability to feel calm and organized. Understanding this connection gives parents a deeper picture of why oral function matters beyond the mouth.

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Why Follow-Up Matters After a Tongue Tie Release
Alyssa Lundquist Alyssa Lundquist

Why Follow-Up Matters After a Tongue Tie Release

A tongue tie release doesn’t automatically teach the body how to use new movement. This post explains what meaningful follow-up looks like for babies and children after a frenectomy, why therapy and body-based support matter, and how a collaborative team approach supports long-term feeding, speech, and comfort.

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Disclaimer: The information shared in these posts are for educational purposes only, and not intended to replace individualized medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Every child is unique. Please consult with your qualified healthcare provider to discuss what is most appropriate for your child and family.